Seven Sexy Secrets: How to Be Hot, Sexy and Beautiful at ANY Size or Age!
Most women wants to feel sexy and beautiful. No matter her age, height, weight, size or shape we want to look and feel good- period. If you are single, married or in a long term committed relationship you will find these tips helpful to look and feel hot and sexy today and everyday!

Here are the seven sexy tips:

1. Have you taken the time to apply makeup that enhances your best facial features? Even on a rushed day, it’s a good idea to represent yourself as a well-groomed woman who puts effort into her appearance. When you feel sexy and confident, the world is yours for the taking.

2. Do your clothes fit your body type, and are you feeling confident and sexy in what you are wearing? Keep in mind that sexy clothes can even be conservative, as long as you feel your best and carry yourself with poise! Accessories such as sexy heels, eye-catching belts or that perfect Little Black Dress can make your evening perfect before you even head out the door.

3. Are you all pretty in pink or . . . red?! Did you know many women are most afraid of the color that looks the best on everyone? Red! Get into the spirit of wearing bright, catchy colors. There are dozens of shades of red and pink to bring out the feminine glow of every woman, so don’t be shy about trying a few until you find one you feel sexy in.

4. Do you have on sexy underwear and a bra that makes the most of your body? Even if chances are that no one else will catch a glimpse of your under-things tonight, there is still a certain rush from knowing the silky secrets you are hiding beneath the fabric of your clothes. If you are in a relationship or involved with a special person they will be sure to love the surprise you have waiting for them underneath it all!

5. Have you treated yourself to a manicure and pedicure lately? Treat yourself to a special manicure and pedicure for this special day. Try a shade of pink to match your pink outfit or red will do the trick, too! Apply clear polish and moisturizer to your nails. If you have time (and funds), however, there are dozens of nail salons and the cost of getting a full manicure and pedicure treatment is likely less than a movie and dinner with friends.

6. Are you willing and open to new experiences in the bedroom? Keep in mind that sexy is as sexy does… we cannot encourage confidence and sexiness outside of the bedroom if we do not address it inside the bedroom. Don’t hide under the sheets or switch off the lights so fast… maybe a change is just what you need in the bedroom!

7. Have you repeated your sexy mantra to yourself daily? Do you look in the mirror and remind yourself of just how sexy you really are? Always remember to carry yourself with an air of sexy confidence. Be your own biggest fan, and others will follow. Tell yourself “I am sexy and I know it!” Know that you are sexy, desirable and interesting, and do not be afraid to remind yourself not only today but everyday!

Plus Size Model Nancy Hayssen, author of “You Can Be Sexy at ANY Size!” is teaching women how to look and feel sexy no matter what weight, shape, age or size. Order the book and get your free gift at: http://ww.looksexynow.com

What do men want?
We women think we know. They want women who look like the ones on the Silver Screen, the ones on the pages of Vogue and Cosmo, women who look like Cindy Crawford or Nicole Kidman.

What do women want?

We want to look like the women men want. We want to have perfect bodies, perfect faces. And we want to feel good about ourselves, to wear the beautiful fashions we see in those magazines, to look as beautiful outside as we think we are inside.

Ladies, women, girls, listen up: we have been deceived.

Men don’t like sticks or bones. Men like women who have some softness to their bodies, a curve or two or three. Women who don’t look like they’ll break in half in their hands. And they like strong women, both emotionally and physically.

There’s an old European saying that the bone is for the dog – the meat is for the man. That means that women with some flesh, some substance to them, are more attractive than women who are skin and bones.

Does this shock or surprise you?

Maybe it does.

Consider this: most of the fashion industry today is controlled by GAY MEN. Seriously. Now, that’s no complaint about gayness – it’s perfectly fine, and they have a unique perspective on beauty that is a true blessing to the world. But would you ask a mechanic to diagnose your liver problem?

No!

What do gay men know about female beauty and sexuality? Are you trying to get gay men to look at you and say you’re beautiful, or do you prefer straight ones?

The answer is obvious.

So why are you looking at Cosmo and runway models and high fashion when you’re trying to judge female beauty? Shouldn’t you be asking men who the supermodels ought to be?

Now here’s another bone of contention: ask most men where they see beautiful women, and they’ll say Playboy or some other “male” magazine. However, if you ask them about Marilyn Monroe (size 14, sometimes a little larger) or the beautiful women painted by artists from the time of the ancient Greeks to just the last century, most will agree that these women are at least as beautiful, and many would say even more beautiful.

Something disturbing is going on. Media images of women are growing thinner, while the average weight of American and European women is getting higher. Men are being told that these bone-thin women are the epitome of beautiful – and they’re believing it. And women who are on the plumper side of the bell curve, no matter how beautiful they are, are being told that they are ugly.

Ugly? Marilyn Monroe, ugly? Titian’s models, ugly? You and me?

We are being lied to by the fashion industry. Women of medically average size, and women who are on the larger side, are not only healthier than waifishly-thin women; they are more beautiful, sexier and enjoy life more. We are being told that fat is ugly. I’m telling you that fat is normal, and no uglier than, say, a nose. On some, it can be ugly. But on others, it’s a beautiful enhancement.

And the West is an anomaly. In Islamic countries, in India, in South America, in Africa, women of size are considered beautiful. A round belly and luxurious curves make a woman perfect, and sometimes that rounded belly or a large bottom and hips are more crucial to being sexy than large breasts. African-American men and Latinos all agree that women with generous curves are by far the best.

What is wrong with us?

Part of it is the idea of beauty as an unattainable thing. It is mostly in poorer parts of the world that beauty is seen in large women. This is the same reason that tans became fashionable in the mid-20th century, when working women were pale and you had to have money to be tanned because you didn’t have to work.

But that’s only part of it. The rest of the reason probably has more to do with the images promoted by the media than anything else. The media is always looking for the bigger, edgier, more extreme image – and in beauty, extreme is going to be very thin, very bosomy, very perfected. That’s why we have these impossibly-shaped women with ribs showing under their size-F bosoms.

There is a solution.

We must rebel. Instead of bowing to the media, instead of hiding our beauty under a bushel, we must come forward, all the beautiful large women we are. We must lay claim to our share of womanly beauty. It’s ours. We have a right to it.

We must make men stop looking at those unnatural women in magazines as female perfection, and start looking at us instead.

We must let the rest of the world know that we exist, and that we will not stand for it. There are millions who will stand with us if we do it: lovely plus-size women, women who’ve starved their bodies into submission and are just tired of it, and men who love women with curves.

If we stop being afraid, we can pull others out of the dark places and muumuus they’ve been hiding in. We can let the light of day shine on our voluptuous bodies at the beach and in our backyards, and stop being shamed by those who have no idea what they’re talking about.

It will take a movement. It will take a revolution of beauty. I think we’re all up to it. We have the energy to take on those wispy malnourished girls and feed them a sandwich or two!

Ladies, let’s bring it on.

The truth is you don’t have to be skinny to be beautiful… in fact it’s the exact opposite. Learn tips revealed from the just released book “101 Secrets to Be Sexy at ANY Size!” how you can look and feel sexy today, no matter what size you are.

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Contact Nancy Hayssen for an Interview on “Busting Skinny Myths, the Truth of What Men Really Want and Secrets How You Can Be Sexy at ANY Size!” 707.758.0149 Email

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Latest Poll Show 80% of Men Want Curvy Voluptuous Women, NOT Rail Thin Stick Models Like We Have Been Told

In the wake of Madrid’s banning of models with a BMI of 18 or lower, the question has been raised again of whether fashion models are too thin. The fashion industry’s continued move towards thinner and thinner models has come under fire from several sources, mainly because of the influence it has had over young women and the rise of anorexia and bulimia.

In the last 20 years, fashion models have gone from a size 8 to a size 0 for runway models. Within the same time period, the average American woman has gone from a size 10 to a size 14. Yet, American women, according to an online poll, see the super thin stick models and feel they are unattractive and unhappy in their average or curvy bodies.

As governments are now getting involved in trying to reverse the skinny ideal, other agencies and spokespeople, like Nancy Hayssen, a former plus size model, are speaking out to women everywhere to recognize beauty in women no matter what their size.

Nancy’s website became the number one site on the internet for the term “sexy plus size model”. She has been inundated with responses from men and women all over the world praising her beauty as a plus size woman. With the constant message in the media that you can only be beautiful if you are skinny to the bone she became determined to prove otherwise. As Nancy puts it, “I’ve always been happy and proud of my voluptuous body. I wouldn’t choose to be rail thin if my life depended on it.”

There are over 8 million people in this country who are anorexic, bulimic or have eating disorders. Most of them are young women. “Young women look at these magazines showing super thin models and think they should be like them in order to be attractive. Yet contrary to popular belief that skinny is desirable, the recent poll ran show the truth that men like some meat on a woman!” says Nancy Hayssen author of “You Can Be Sexy at ANY Size!”.

According to this same recent online poll of men ages 18-51 and older, 80% of men are attracted to women that are curvy and voluptuous such as Jennifer Lopez, and an additional 15% are attracted to average bodies.

It didn’t shock her at all to learn the results from the poll that most men prefer average to curvy, large women. “Men love women that have some meat on their bones. I’ve always known this.”

Surprisingly, this leaves only 5% of men that actually find rail thin anorexic looking women like Nicole Ritchie and models we see on the runways as truly beautiful.

Even more shocking when asked the question: “Who is the sexiest woman ever?” the winning response was “my wife” beating out historic beauty Marilyn Monroe who made second place.

The average American woman is 5’4” and wears a size 14. This also happens to be roughly the size Marilyn Monroe, considered one of the most beautiful women celebrities of our time would have been today. Size 14 is considered plus size, therefore, the average American woman is plus size. This is good news for women everywhere since men are really attracted to average curvy women.

“We’re being lied to everyday. The fashion industry and Hollywood have spread the MYTH that men want skinny anorexic looking women. The truth is—it’s plus size or curvy women that are considered beautiful,” says Nancy. She now speaks out about the reality of what men really want through the internet and the radio letting the public know what the “real skinny” is.

The truth is you don’t have to be skinny to be beautiful… in fact it’s the exact opposite. Learn tips revealed from the just released book “101 Secrets to Be Sexy at ANY Size!” how you can look and feel sexy today no matter what size you are.

Get Your “Make Me Sexy Now!” Kit at: www.looksexynow.com

Contact Nancy Hayssen for an Interview on “Hollywood Skinny Myths, the Secret to What Men Really Want and the Truth How You Can Be Sexy at ANY Size!” 707.758.0149 Email

5 Lies Hollywood Tells You to Make You Feel Bad About Yourself and…
Truths: How You Can Love Yourself Again!

You are being lied to by the fashion industry and Hollywood.

1. You Are Not Perfect!
   
   TRUTH: Nobody is perfect. Perfection does not exist. Love yourself now for who you are- you ARE “perfect” JUST the way you are!
2. You Will Never Be Good Enough
   
   TRUTH: You are good enough RIGHT NOW. Repeat to yourself continually “I AM GOOD ENOUGH just the way I AM.”
3. You Can Only Be Beautiful if You Are 90 lbs. and Look Anorexic
   
   TRUTH: Men love curvy women with some meat on their bones! You are beautiful, curvy and sexy. Look in the mirror to see and feel YOUR unique beauty.
4. No Matter How Much You Weigh . . . You’re Still Too FAT!
   
   TRUTH: This is an unattainable illusion the fashion industry and Hollywood has created to get you to hate yourself. The truth is you are uniquely you, no matter what size you are.
5. You Can Only Be Sexy if You Are a Rich Celebrity
   
   TRUTH: Think again. You don’t have to be in the movies to be beautiful. Even if you are broke, overweight, big, “old”, average . . . there are a tons of ways You Can Be Sexy Right at ANY Size!

March 30, 2007 - America’s Next Top Model has the competition heating up and even though Tyra really was rooting for both her plus-size models, the time had come for one of them to leave. Whitney and Diana were both in the bottom two and in the end, it was Diana who was sent home.

We talked with Diana about her experiences on the show. She talked about being a plus-size model in the competition and her favorite moments. She also gave advice to any aspiring plus-size girls who might try out.

IGN TV: It was exciting to see two plus size models make it to the final thirteen for the first time. Were you expecting it or was it a shock? Continue Reading…