It may sound contrary to the goal of being independent and confident, but being agreeable when possible can be a huge asset in your sexiness. A huge part of confidence is being a positive and optimistic individual.

When you are easy to be around and looking for the humor in every situation, people are naturally attracted to you.

The air of self esteem is almost contagious, and being open to new ideas draws people in to your world.

When a friend or co-worker knows that they can present an alternate way of thinking to you without being shot down, you will gain their appreciation and admiration, which in turn grows your own self assurance.

*ACTION TIP! The “pay it forward” mentality of spreading good will and confidence is a proven method to making you feel sexier, smarter and needed in the world. Who wouldn’t want to be around you?