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Again, this is something seemingly simple that can change your self-image in a matter of minutes.

I personally love the way my legs look in a skirt just a few inches above the knee with black, sturdy (not stiletto!) heels. I have thick upper legs, but my calves are one of my best physical attributes.

For some reason, my calves look toned, while my thighs are very large. Because I can admit that my thighs are not a favorite body part to show off, I wear skirts and dresses that cover them completely and invest in quality high heels that accentuate my lower legs.

By staying away from skinny stick-like heels, I avoid making my calves look huge in comparison to the shoe heel. Also, I am sure we have all seen larger women in very skinny heels who look like the shoe will snap under her weight at any moment. Don’t be that woman!

When shopping for shoes, I always look for a simple, “chunky” (sturdy) heel, between two and four inches in height. I always keep away from ankle straps (they give the image of “cutting the line” that the heel is creating and therefore make your leg look larger).

Wedge heels also look great and are easy to walk in. (See Secret #34 for other leg-slimming tips!) A good quality pair of black heels can go with business suits, skirts, dresses and even jeans! The added height and improved shape of your calves in heels will make you walk with a sexy switch, no matter what else you are wearing.

*ACTION TIP! Don’t be cheap if you are going to be on your feet for a long time in the heels… your lower back and feet deserve the best that you can afford!